Laboratory of life

Sometimes life makes u smile.. Sometimes makes u cry, sometimes makes u happy, sometimes angry and sometimes even mad too!!!

Whatever it is, if u sit and worry about whats happening around u no one is gonna even wait for u let alone helpin u.. Life is goin to move on.. Jus bcos u r sad, flight services r not goin to be disrupted, the shops r not goin to be closed, lovers are not going to stop romancing, or for that matter anythin!!!

By the time u finish readin this blog post more than 750 people r already born in this world.. Its how u differentiate urself from others thats goin to make u unique and special.. Its a competitive world out there and everyone is ready to pounce on u if u mistake..

U have 2 options to solve this scenario :

First:
U strive for excellence so that even if u mistake it doesnt make much of a difference to anyone.

Second:
Learn to hide ur mistakes and correct it before its too late.. It requires a skill in itself..

The connecting link is that both r tough.. Both require persistence.. Both require resilient attitude etc etc from u..

But what ever it is, never quit jus bcos u lost.. Try , try, try, try again..

Life is jus like a laboratory.. What u do in labs?? U mix solutions of various proportions till u get the right proposition.. U may get it right at the first attempt itself.. Luck should favour too.. U may get in 2nd, 3rd or even in the n'th attempt.. Only if u design the protocol for urself u will get to know more about the experiment and about urself too.. Ur a loser only if u don fight back.. Remember this always..

(I think i m talkin a bit too much.. Bcos i never do anythin in labs.. I jus ask my professor or my friends for the shortest method possible.. Anyways let this be an exception now.. Ha ha)

Relationships always tend to become a burden too heavy to carry.. We get apprehensive that we may lose them if we lose sight of them or jus time will hav its part to play.. Whatever it is, unless we make bold decisions and come out of the figment of our own imagination nothin is goin to go r way.. It always takes a lot deal of courage to say a "NO" to anythin that we love the most.. Sometime or the other it gotta be done.. If it comes sooner than later u will get more mature and lead a balanced life..

All people r made up of the same flesh and bones as u.. Its jus the determination and resolve to fight varies.. U must wake up the fighter inside everyone of them..

Always feel good about yourself.. Only when ur happy u can make others happy.. U can reflect ur happiness upon them.. Thats when life gets smooth and ur self-worth increases..

The simple thing is that "Private victories" are more important in order to experience a successful "Public victory"!!!
Private victories are those tiny victories like making others smile, spending time with ur well wishers, getting a gift for ur loved ones etc.. Private victories may be small but they r worth a lot more to ur mind..
Public victories are like becoming the class 1st, announcing to the world that u hav arrived.. Some things of that sort which r really big in any terms..

I would like to suggest 2 practical methods to nurture a proper future for u..

Mind you, these theories have been proved by our Indian Sages for over 1500 yrs.. If u execute it successfully u have got a big deal for urself..

So first, here comes The Magic Rule of 21...

The only permanent way to install a new habit is to direct ur full energy towards it so that ur old habit flies off.. Follow this habit for 21 days and it becomes a part of ur character.. And so u become.. You must have self-control to digest everything happening around you to make ur new found habit to become an integral part of u..

This is so valuable bcos of the fact that things dont remain the same always.. It will change one day or the other.. U wont meet the same people everyday, u wont catch the same bus at the same time everyday, u wont be happy always or rather always sad too..

(Its really a very very tough task to meet.. Take it as a challenge and come through it unscathed.. I could not cross more than 6 days.. I m trying to improve my record.. )

And,

Written goals have more power.. So make a note of ur vision and read it daily.. See it daily.. Play with it daily.. Pray for it, work for it, die for it!!! Thats when success will crown upon u...

Life is a game.. Enjoy it!!

Winners and losers galore.